There are 3 things that I want to happen on your wedding day, more than anything:

1. For you both to laugh at least seven hundred times.

2. For us, together, to make photographs that you will look at when you’re ninety, and all the intensity and joy of the day will come rushing back to you and put a lump in your throat. You’ll look at your young selves, your perfect beaming little faces, and you’ll be bowled over by how gorgeous and in love you were.

3. I also want, at the end of the night, to feel low-key devastated to leave you and your brilliant, kind, hilarious, interesting friends and family.